I uninstalled (flatpak) tokodon, removed user data (you can do that on the tokodon page on Discover when you uninstall it), removed the Tokodon folder inside of Kwalletmanager. Then I rebooted my computer (since Kwalletmanager didn’t want to disconnect Tokodon manually) and re-installed tokodon. Now it’s working just fine
I have no clue why that works or why it doesn’t work in the first place, but that fixed it for me.